2nd baby like the first?

People deal with these things everyday. We are not different. I had a feeling it was coming, the feeling that the second child won't get the same attention as the first. The feeling, how can we possibly make the time and treat the second with as much eagerness and excitement as the first. Will the second's personality be different? I'm sure there's research. Will it make us feel better? Are we making too much of this? ????? Our mental approach, which is the best in the history of perfect enviroments for families and raising children, in my opinion, can't get much better. My wife and I can talk about anything. This is of course after some sort of emotional outburst, but after we realize why these emotional outbursts happen we regroup and move forward. (Keep moving forward-ever seen Meet the Robinsons? An animated movie that showcases the power of positive thinking and environments rather than dwelling in the past with no encouragement.) So with that in mind, I'll try and get my head around this feeling and put it to rest, for awhile anyway.